Your husband is prepared for intimacy by what he see. Woman are prepared by what they here.
Men are visually stimulated by your beauty. Men do not often listed well, but there is nothing wrong with their eyesight! Give him yourself to look at. Visual for him, words for her. will match our readyness for intimacy. Do not hide under the sheets in the dark. All of us, wheather old or young, have issues with the way we see our bodies. We sometimes like to hide them. Our husbands with their pot bellies and bald heads have their own issues! We all gain weight, get wrinkles and get older. For most husbands they are not bothered by this. They love us for us, and our history together.
What they really want is our love respect and honor. They want a best buddy and number one cheerleader.
Let your husband look at you, not the computer images, or other women, this will destroy your marriage These women are not "real" all touched up and made over.
Let him see the real you, he will love it!
wife of over 25 years